I happen to be 63 so she is a much older sister. And I remind her of that every chance I get.
Carol is the sister with whom I made mud pies and with whom I shared a room when we were growing up.
She was always petite and small-boned while I was the big, strapping girl. I was taller and heavier as far back as I can remember. As younger sisters often do, I annoyed her greatly. We would get into physical scrapes. My mom told me more than once that I had to be careful with Carol. I was so much bigger than she was and I could really hurt her. Couldn’t my mom see that Carol was like a bantam rooster, fierce, stubborn and relentless? And that she had the upper hand in almost every dispute?
In the Greatly Annoying Department, my personal Facebook account was cloned this week. My current Facebook friends were invited to friend me again. Many of them were aware of the scam going around so rather than re-friending me they informed me this was happening. One person who accepted the invitation was immediately instant-messaged (supposedly by me). The message told her to delete my original Facebook profile and use the new one because the original one was infected by a Trojan virus. She messaged me upon the receipt of the message so I knew what was going on. I changed my password and notified Facebook that someone was using my identity. Facebook deleted the cloned account relatively quickly. I have heard now about other people to whom this has happened. I have heard that the cloned account sends out messages asking for money. It was an annoying happening because who wants to deal with that? Continue reading →
I published the first post on my blog exactly two months ago. I did not know if blogging would be something I would enjoy but I needed to jump in and give it a try. I simultaneously enrolled for WordPress’s Blogging U 101 class. I can hardly be considered an expert with such a short tenure but this post reports the state of my blog today.
Nobody warned me that it would be addicting. But what a joy it has been.
I extend sincere appreciation to those people who have connected with my blog, whether or not they choose to follow me. I am always happy to receive feedback and constructive criticism which will help me to improve my product.
It is commonplace how easily a child of three or four picks up a foreign language if exposed to it without any formal teaching. Yet we are unwilling to admit that a child of the same age picks up our unconscious attitudes and prejudices without being taught–and often retains these longer than any of his formal education.
Sydney J. Harris
Today’s quote has a very important message concerning how children easily pick up the attitudes and prejudices that they see from the people in their lives. We should always be mindful of how what we do and say can so easily be embraced by a child, whether we are a parent, a teacher, a friend or a neighbor.
For years, I have kept a notebook of quotes that I found to be significant. This particular quote was something that I added to my journal when I was in my early 20’s, sometime back in the ’70’s. I think it stood the test of time. Sydney Harris was a journalist for the Chicago Sun Times and the Chicago Daily News who passed away in 1986.
This weeks’ Top Ten Tuesday list is things that will always and forever be part of your life. Perhaps we should know better than to say we will definitely, beyond the shadow of a doubt, no matter what, always do something. After all, we cannot know what life holds in store for us. However, these would be things that we can’t imagine a circumstance or scenario in which we would not keep these things within our behavior pattern. Items on the list might not all be positive. For example, my list includes worrying which I would prefer not to do, but realistically I know I always will. The idea is to quickly come up with ten things (in no particular order) that fit this category. If you wish join me by coming up with your own list.
Ten Things I Will Always Do
I will always go to church regularly.
I will always pray.
I will always worry about my loved ones’ physical and emotional well-being.
I will always read books for leisure.
I will always cross stitch
I will always cry at funerals, weddings and sometimes just because I need a good cry.
I will always laugh uproariously when anything strikes me as hilarious.
I will always enjoy the beauty of nature, sunrises, sunsets and clouds.
I will always feel grateful and blessed for the wonderful people who are part of my life.
I will always appreciate the creative efforts of others.
Would any items on my list be shared on your list?
We have not had enough snow in New Mexico this winter. We have not experienced six feet of snow as did the northeastern part of the United States. We did not have an ice storm that essentially shut down the city for much of a week as has happened in part of the country. Four to eight inches of snow were forecast over this past weekend. Although it was spitting snow for a while we had no noticeable accumulation.
I stepped out on the back deck Sunday morning and I heard a chorus of birds singing loudly and beautifully. We have a heated bird bath mounted on the deck and it was very busy. The bird bath was visited by mountain chickadees and black-capped chickadees, sparrows, pine siskins and house finches, all of which we see consistently through the winter months.
The special visitors yesterday were a group of robins cavorting in the bird bath in spite of the gray, frigid, windy conditions. Once the robins have arrived, can spring be far behind?
Overnight temperatures are in the teens. I hope those robins have adequate protection from the cold.
I am far overdue in recognizing the wonderful blog Grubbs ‘n Critters. It is one of the first blogs with which I connected when I started blogging in January. Ann is a long time blogger who touches on a wide variety of topics in her very interesting blog. I love her tag line, “Life is what happens when you are making other plans.” How true that is. Visit her blog and see all that she offers the blogging community.
My recognition of Ann results from her nominating my blog for the Very Inspiring Blogging Award. Awkwardly I must state although the nomination gives me the excuse to mention her, I dot need an excuse. I love her blog. I must find another way to recognize great blogs without tying it to acceptance of an award that I may or may not be deserving of. I think it is wonderful for blogging support to be recognized by others, but for me the significance is not so much in the award but in the opportunity it provides to mention other wonderful blogs that we have discovered.
Today on my Saturday Stitching Post (which I am considering naming this feature) I step away from the bigger pieces I have done and present a small project that I designed and stitched for my office. My typical day at work consists of slogging through tons of paperwork.It has been a good day when I have less paperwork on my desk at the end of the day than I had at the start. My desk looks very unorganized but amazingly enough I can almost always put my finger on anything I need. I did this small design because the saying is very appropriate for my office.
My laptop came home from the shop on Friday night. I feel I have gained back some freedom. I don’t have to be sitting at my computer desk while blogging after spending most of the day sitting at a computer at work. Instead I can sit back in a lounge chair and relax or work on my blog anywhere. How tied I am to technology!
The biggest family event of the week was that my precious baby girl turned 26. The Affordable Care Act has made age 26 a new rite of passage. The Act requires that if a plan provides coverage for children, the coverage must continue until the children are age 26. With this birthday, she can no longer be on my insurance as of the end of the month. She spent hours over the last couple months researching the different plans available and made her choice a few weeks ago. Once she enrolled in her new plan she instant messaged me and said, “Holy smokes. I’m growing up!” I have been painfully aware of that practically since she started kindergarten when she told me, her tearful mother, “You have to learn to let go.”
Every now and then I hear about someone who has vivid memories from when they were three or even two years old. That fascinates me, but I surely do not remember things from that far back. I do have some clear memories from when I was five years old. I am confident of the age because my older brothers and sisters were in school and I was not. In addition, my family moved when I was in first grade and I can identify the old farmhouse as the setting of my memories.
I had two younger brothers, 21 months and 5 1/2 years younger than me. My first lesson in faith revolved around the birth of the baby brother. My little brother and I told our mother that we wanted to have another sister or brother. Mom told us that if we prayed to God we might get one. Oh my, we prayed. And, voilà! We got a baby! And almost immediately! That sure convinced me of the power of prayer and of God.
Making My Home A Haven is important to me. Sharing homemaking skills. Recipes and food. Bible Studies. This is a treasure chest of goodies. So take a seat. Have a glass of tea and enjoy. You will learn all about who I am.